I've started to read this book. I'm not sure if it's helping me or not. I've come to terms with the fact that he most likely will never leave his wife. I'm OK with that. The book basically is telling me I should use him, like he's using me. I don't know if this applies to our relationship. Well, maybe it does. I told him I wanted more money (remember he's my boss), a new apartment (one bedroom -- no more roommates), and a new car (mine is falling apart).
This arrangement is supposed to be for the next two years, until I graduate from school.
He's thinking about it...and still thinking about what he's going to do about his marriage.
I'm just confused. And sort of not.